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Are you accidentally rewarding bad behavior? 😳 Most parents don’t realize they’re doing this: They react immediately when their child acts out, but ignore good behavior completely. The pattern: Throws toys → Instant attention Plays quietly → Nothing Hits sibling → Full response Shares nicely → Ignored Your child is learning: bad behavior = parent’s attention. The fix? Start catching them showing the behaviour you want to see more of “I noticed you waited so patiently—thank you!” “You’re being so gentle right now!” “I love how you used your inside voice!” Try the 5:1 rule: 5 positive comments for every correction. What gets attention gets repeated. If you only respond to chaos, you’ll get more chaos. Which parent are you right now? 🟥 Reactive (stuck in the cycle) 🟩 Proactive (building confidence) Share one behavior you’d like to see more of !👇 . . . . . . . #parentingtips #parentingcoach #momlife #positiveparenting #parentingadvice #toddlermom #consciousparenting

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This post was published on 01st November, 2025 by Ankita on her Instagram handle "@followyourchild (Ankita B Chandak | Montessori Expert | Parenting Coach)". Ankita has total 497.2K followers on Instagram and has a total of 1.0K post.This post has received 1.4K Likes which are lower than the average likes that Ankita gets. Ankita receives an average engagement rate of 0.52% per post on Instagram. This post has received 36 comments which are lower than the average comments that Ankita gets. Overall the engagement rate for this post was lower than the average for the profile. #parentingcoach #consciousparenting #parentingtips #parentingadvice #positiveparenting #momlife #toddlermom has been used frequently in this Post.