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There’s a kind of attachment that doesn’t come from love. It comes from investment. From showing up. Waiting. Trying again. And again. The more you give, the more you convince yourself it must mean something. Because what’s the alternative? That it was never safe to begin with? That you kept building meaning around a structure that couldn’t hold you? For those with anxious or avoidant patterns, we often don’t attach to people— we attach to effort. To the hope that one day, this much pain will make sense. And when it doesn’t? Letting go doesn’t just hurt. It threatens your entire story. This post isn’t about leaving. It’s about recognising what it’s been costing you to stay. #attachmentpatterns #relationaltrauma #emotionalinvestments #nervoussystemhealing #psychologicalinsight #wordsthatland #realtalkheals #carouseltherapy #postsavedme #seeninwords

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This post was published on 29th July, 2025 by Ambika on her Instagram handle "@dastaan_e_musafir (Ruhi | Mental Health Practitioner)". Ambika has total 172.4K followers on Instagram and has a total of 1.9K post.This post has received 641 Likes which are lower than the average likes that Ambika gets. Ambika receives an average engagement rate of 0.47% per post on Instagram. This post has received 59 comments which are greater than the average comments that Ambika gets. Overall the engagement rate for this post was lower than the average for the profile. #wordsthatland #relationaltrauma #attachmentpatterns #postsavedme #realtalkheals #psychologicalinsight #emotionalinvestments #carouseltherapy #nervoussystemhealing #seeninwords has been used frequently in this Post.