
Growing up is realising... 1. By the time you’re in your 20s, you’ve probably figured out a few things-whether you’re a cat person or a dog person; whether you’re team Edward or team Jacob; and whether you like pineapples on pizza. What you might not have figured out, though, is what the future holds for you or where you’re headed in life. And nope, that doesn’t make you unfit to be an adult. Why? Because luckily, there’s one more thing you’ll have learned by the time you’re 30. It’s that there’s one person who’s going to be there to get you through it all. That person will be you. ✨ 2. You may or may not have the same friend you grew up with. People change, move cities even countries or some just outgrow each other. Clinging onto relationships is the most toxic thing you can do to yourself. If you don’t feel cherished, leave. 3. Making mistakes now will ruin your life later. Depends on the mistake. Sure, committing a felony at the age of 21 can seriously affect your life for decades to come. For most of us however, and error in judgment as a young adult will not destroy our futures. When you do make a mistake, learn from it, fix it if you can, and move on 4. Your relationships will take a different turn every now and then. Romanticising red flags, or trying to fix a person, having a saviour complex can only damage your mental health. Relationship require commitment and hard work. 5. Making your point is more important than listening to those of others. The Greek philosopher Epictetus said, “We have two ears and one mouth so that we can listen twice as much as we speak.” Why say anything more? 6. When you’re in your 20s, you do NOT know it all. You may not be “destined for greatness,” but you’re also not “destined for failure”. What you do have going for you at that age is; you have an amazing potential for a happy, fulfilling life, as long as you stick to the things you value, and are caring of others – and yourself. #fyp #trendingreels #explorepage #millenial #beinginyour20s #lifelessons
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