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It isnt about the game or the mistake. I saw it in that moment… It was about how she felt about herself. When kavya loses or makes a mistake, her reaction feels so big and I used to think… “Why is this such a big deal?” But now I see what’s really happening. At this age, it’s not just: “I lost.” It quietly becomes: “I’m not good enough.” “I disappointed them.” “I failed.” No wonder it feels so heavy for her. And honestly… my first instinct? To make her “strong.” “Don’t cry.” “It’s okay.” “Try again.” But I’ve started pausing. Because what she needs first… is not strength. It’s safety. Now I try to say: “That must have felt really disappointing.” “I can see you really wanted that.” And I’ve noticed something… When she feels understood, she calms down faster. But more importantly, she’s learning: ✨ It’s okay to make mistakes ✨ My feelings are safe ✨ I’m still worthy, even when I fail That’s where real confidence begins. Not by avoiding failure… but by feeling safe through it. If you’re raising a daughter, you’ve probably seen this too 💛 Save this for the next time it happens. #activitiesforkids ##motherhood kavyaislife #parentingtruths #ParentingTips

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This post was published on 22nd March, 2026 by Divya on her Instagram handle "@kavyaislife (Divya Bhatia | partner in your parenting journey)". Divya has total 74.1K followers on Instagram and has a total of 1.4K post.This post has received 61 Likes which are lower than the average likes that Divya gets. Divya receives an average engagement rate of 0.17% per post on Instagram. This post has received 49 comments which are greater than the average comments that Divya gets. Overall the engagement rate for this post was lower than the average for the profile. #motherhood #activitiesforkids #parentingtruths #ParentingTips has been used frequently in this Post.