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Kids often don't know how to explain why they don't like a friend. They just say "I don't know." The Traffic Light System gives them the language to understand it. Here are the specific examples to look for: 🔴 RED LIGHT (The "Stop" Friend) This friendship feels bad. The Examples: They physically hurt you (hitting, pinching). They use threats: "I won't be your friend if you don't give me that toy." They make fun of you when you make a mistake. The Lesson: Stop the car. We don’t play with Red Lights. 🟡 YELLOW LIGHT (The "Tricky" Friend) This friendship feels confusing. The Examples: They are nice to you when you are alone, but ignore you when "cooler" kids are around. They change the rules of the game just so they can win. You feel like you have to change who you are to make them happy. The Lesson: Slow down. Watch carefully. You don't have to trust them with your secrets yet. 🟢 GREEN LIGHT (The "Go" Friend) This friendship feels easy. The Examples: They say: "Are you okay?" if you fall down. They listen when it’s your turn to talk. They are happy for you when you win a game. The Lesson: Green means GO! These friends are keepers. Try this tonight: Ask your child: "Did [Friend's Name] give you a Green Light feeling or a Red Light feeling today?" Save this list to help your kids spot the signs! 🚦 #Parenting101 #FriendshipSkills #StopBullying ChildPsychology MomLife

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