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Learn. Unlearn. Relearn. I learned to always be available. To show up. To help. To hold space for everyone — even when no one stopped to ask if I had space for myself. I thought that’s what kindness meant. Then came the unlearning. I began to see how much of myself I was pouring into people who only knew how to receive — not return. And when things went wrong? I wasn’t just the helper — I became the emotional firefighter. The peacemaker. The one fixing everything I didn’t even break. So now, I’m relearning. What kindness really means — and it starts with being kind to me. It looks like boundaries. It feels like peace. It sounds like, “Not my responsibility this time.” This is my season of mindful giving — where I choose who gets my time and energy. No guilt. No explaining. No more being the default fixer. Because peace isn’t a luxury — it’s sacred. And I’m protecting it like it’s priceless. Because it is. 🤍 #LearnUnlearnRelearn #boundariesarekindness #PeaceIsMyPriority #softandstrong

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This post was published on 18th July, 2025 by Desai on her Instagram handle "@shahenaz_juned (Shahenaz_Mansuri)". Desai has total 19.3K followers on Instagram and has a total of 531 post.This post has received 131 Likes which are greater than the average likes that Desai gets. Desai receives an average engagement rate of 0.7% per post on Instagram. This post has received 9 comments which are lower than the average comments that Desai gets. Overall the engagement rate for this post was lower than the average for the profile. #boundariesarekindness #LearnUnlearnRelearn #softandstrong #PeaceIsMyPriority has been used frequently in this Post.