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Somewhere between becoming a mother, taking care of everyone, managing responsibilities, and simply surviving each day… I forgot that I was a person too. A woman with dreams. Goals. Ambitions. A version of herself that once imagined a completely different life. And honestly, nobody prepares women for this part of motherhood. People celebrate the baby. They celebrate the family. But very few people ask the mother: “How are YOU doing internally?” There were years where I felt emotionally exhausted all the time. Years where survival became my routine. Years where I looked fine from outside while silently struggling with postpartum depression, anxiety, loneliness, and identity loss. I kept postponing myself. My healing. My dreams. My happiness. Because somewhere along the way, I started believing that motherhood meant sacrificing every part of myself. But now I’m slowly realizing something important: My children do not need a mother who completely disappears. They deserve a mother who feels alive too. A woman who still dreams. Still grows. Still chooses herself sometimes. So maybe this phase of my life is not about “starting over.” Maybe it’s about finally returning to myself after years of feeling lost. And if you’ve been feeling the same lately… this is your reminder that you are still a person beyond motherhood too. 🤍

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This post was published on 26th May, 2026 by Ramsha on her Instagram handle "@lil_mum_in_town (Rukhsar Rizvi)". Ramsha has total 10.6K followers on Instagram and has a total of 263 post.This post has received 13 Likes which are lower than the average likes that Ramsha gets. Ramsha receives an average engagement rate of 0.92% per post on Instagram. This post has received 0 comments which are lower than the average comments that Ramsha gets. Overall the engagement rate for this post was lower than the average for the profile.