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And no — it’s not your fault. But it is your responsibility to name what’s not working and stop blaming yourself for someone else’s emotional limitations. These relationships don’t always scream — but they slowly silence you. You don’t heal by trying harder. You heal by recognizing the signs — and choosing peace. Here are 15 signs you’ve mistaken survival for love: 1️⃣ You feel misunderstood, even when you’re clear. They just don’t get you. 2️⃣ You shrink yourself to avoid tension — not because you’re quiet, but because you’re tired. 3️⃣ You leave conversations feeling drained, not seen. 4️⃣ You replay your words again and again, afraid of how they’ll land. 5️⃣ Your emotions get labeled: “too much,” “too sensitive,” “dramatic.” 6️⃣ You feel alone, even when they’re right next to you. 7️⃣ You hold back the truth, afraid of being dismissed or attacked. 8️⃣ One of you keeps sacrificing your future to make the relationship last. 9️⃣ They act weird or distant when good things happen for you. 🔟 Your self-esteem is lower than when the relationship started. 1️⃣1️⃣ They show up only when it benefits them. 1️⃣2️⃣ They shut down when you get vulnerable. 1️⃣3️⃣ You’re masking parts of yourself to stay safe. 1️⃣4️⃣ You’re doing all the emotional labor — managing both your needs and theirs. 1️⃣5️⃣ Your gut says “something’s off,” but your heart keeps making excuses. 💡Reframe takeaway — bring back her power: If you’ve been calling this “normal,” it’s not because you’re weak. It’s because your nervous system learned to survive in love — not feel safe in it. But real love doesn’t drain you. It grounds you. Nourishes you. And makes you more you. ✨ Comment “HEAL” if this hit — and you’re ready to come home to the version of you that no longer settles for emotional crumbs. 💗 Sending love, @nidhi_lalwani__ 💗 #emotionalhealing #relationshipclarity #traumarecovery #mentalhealthawareness #relationships

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